Question

I had a bad breakup recently. And I couldn't forget him. So I started talking to one of my friend. He seemed nice to me. So I kept on talking to him. But at the same time I was unable to forget my ex. So to get over my ex, I proposed him. And he accepted it 2 days later. From that day we started talking like girlfriend and boyfriend. He was getting deep with few days but I couldn't get deep in love as I wasn't over with my ex. So I decided to tell him that I wasn't ready for the relationship and I told him to wait for me. But he cried because he thought I was leaving him. It's just been a week and he is crying for me. And I can't get in love with him as he is with me. What should I do? And is he really in love?​

Answer 1

Have you explained it to him? If you did, then he should understand. I'm gonna give you advice based on what I would do.

I would like to get to know him more as friends, and tell him that eventually we could be more, but for now I am still hung up on my ex and I need more time to move on. And getting to know him more in a could-be relationship stand point would give you a chance to see if he really loves you or not.

Sometimes people like to guilt-trip people back into relationships even if you don't want to be in one right at that point. It's happened to me before, and it sucks.

I hope this helps!