1(In my opinion being good shouldn’t have to be a learned behavior you should already be it
2(if I saw a man in a well I would help him
A peripeteia occurs when the audience expects one thing but something else happens
I think what you're looking for is called "Personification"
Personification is where you give non-living objects human-ish looks or feelings, etc. For example take a look at Beauty and The Beast and its two main mascots the little clock guy and the candle. This is an example of personification. <span />