I believe the answer to your question will be all of the above.
It means, he doesn't know what he is doing.
He doesn't know what is right to show you, and what isn't.
Give it time to set in you like each other
Answer : A, B , C
Explanation: the second option
If his car were stolen by two white men then he would comment on it and call them criminals, but if he consented in this situation, he would either be labeled a racist for calling them criminals, or he would try to be lenient and be labeled inept. he should have been less secretive and if asked any questions say that he had his car stolen and the perpetrators are being dealt with.
D. having trouble relaxing