Sounds like the character is full of herself yet realizes that people view her choices and behavior differently. My opinion :)
Answer:
Don't worry about them, girl. Focus on yourself and work for your goals.
Explanation:
Can you please expand on the psychological extent?
If you don't keep the punctuation exact the citation could get confusing
(Sorry if it's wrong it's what sounds about right)
I feel that it is the first one, she is losing interest, because a lot of the rest of the story suggests she is not all the interested with him.
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