Iambic pentameter is the type of meter that contains 10 syllables per line that are alternately unstressed and stressed.
3rd person, because if it was first, you would be personally viewing it as a part of you, like your in it, then its not second person because that's using 'you' and again, you aren't apart of it ,so its 'they, them' which is 3rd person.<span />
Assuming that you're referring to the excerpt from "My Father Writes to my Mother", the statement that best describes the overall impact of the setting would be: Mother feels empowered when she is in the company of her sisters and cousins.
The mother grew up in a culture where women need to be subservient to her husband. Meanwhile, her sisters and cousins seem to have a different perspective for women's role.