<span>A good word to describe the speaker would be "pragmatic." She might be feeling some sadness over the loss of her lover, but she is also taking a rational approach to the situation. She mentions that it wouldn't do to look for someone to replace the lover, since it would only stoke those fires of anguish, which she's not looking to rekindle.</span>
I believe you should talk to your friend in private so they won't get embarrassed also convince them to get a cab home. Choose a designated driver (one who isn't drunk)
If you suspect the friend is drunk and won't listen, do not get into the car with them.
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Probably would depend on your religion. A Christian would say Jesus, but a Buddhist would say Buddha.