Make sure your're confident and can be loud. Also, check with your director on how to conduct, you want to make sure you know how. And don't be afraid to move a little when conducting, it's okay to get into the music. Make sure your band trusts you, a good relationship with them is the best thing you can have.
In the story entitled the Pearl Kino wakes up at the start of the novella as he heard the song of the family and he did feel content which is the answer. Hope this is the best answer and would be of help.