Puncture wounds would be when something punctures the skin, i. e., I stepped on a nail, giving me a puncture wound. When the skin scrapes against a hard surface and tiny blood vessels break in the outer layer of skin, this is called an "abrasion"
I believe you are referring to the Water Cycle.
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Abusive people believe they have the right to control and restrict their partner's lives, often either because they believe their own feelings and needs should be the priority in the relationship, or because they enjoy exerting the power that such abuse gives them. ... Abuse is a learned behavior.
Not every abuser has a narcissistic personality disorder.