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I believe the answer is: self effacing bias
self effacing bias refers to the principle that make us attribute our success to external factors and attributing all our failure to internal factors.
Society with self effacing bias tend to be non-individualistic but tend to blame every individuals for every problems that they have in their life.
The answer is "Intelligence preparation of the battlespace (IPB), Mission analysis and Plans and orders devolopment".
The main role of the Intelligence Preparation of the Battlespace (IPB) is to help the administrator's arranging and basic leadership by distinguishing, surveying and evaluating the adversary.
Just tell her that that is what you want to do and that you have to do that to keep everyone safe and she should be supportive. just be open w her, and how you feel and be nice about it!