Cara has a high self monitor and she is able to easily change her mood and character to match the mood of any gathering she finds herself in. An individual with a high self monitor finds it easy to change their mood, reaction and even verbal tone to blend easily with their social environment.
Here is an idea: Empowerment, such an audacious word meaning the authority or power to do something; most commonly in a work or legal environment. But yet as Eleanor Rossevelt said clearly to all," No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. " (Sorry if it took a bit longer than you wanted it too.)