Explanation:
1. well, if you don't want to loose their friendship, then you should not say it out loud suddenly or say no a lot.
2. Start by asking them to help in small things but not very frequently.
3. Do step 2 while helping them too and bonding while helping them.
4. Then, u can also raise the difficulty of the work ur asking others.
5. Start this step slowly too and not frequently.
6. All these steps should be followed in the time period of 6 months to a year, not earlier than this.
7. But, if they are of the type to not listen, then discuss this with them about this topic once
8. If they still not listen or co-operate, then it's better to not be in such a relationship. It's better for you to jst move on.
9. I know that it will be very difficult, especially for those people who give that extra efforts and do not have a habit to refuse.
10. But, everything has a start. You, my friend, jst have to take that first step.
11. And, the best and easy first step is to discuss this with ur parents.
12. Even, if u think that they would be getting annoyed by this, u jst have to tell them seriously.
13. They want to see u happy and will obviously help and give you meaningful advise too.
14. Then, the next step will be to start changing ur habit of giving only and see studies or articles on the principle of "give and take".
15. If u don't want to change urself, change ur group, replace the people who do not want to change for u.
16. Think about urself first..........
17. So all the best.
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