Question

ndrea and Paul were studying the same subject at the same university. They were close friends and spent a lot of time together. They were both members of the chess club, had similar tastes in music, and often met for coffee. When one of them confessed to a long-kept fantasy that their relationship would one day become a romantic one, the other was surprised, and has been wary ever since. What most likely happened to cool their friendship

Answer 1

Answer:

Andrea and Paul

What cooled their friendship?

One of them was surprised to hear that the other had been cherishing a romantic feeling for so long without expressing it.  Perhaps, the surprised party had waited for the disclosure for too long.  The news only came out when, most likely, she is hooked to another man.  This non-disclosure can cause relationships to cool off.  Women are most likely to feel disgruntled and let down, if a man had been nursing a long-lasting relationship feeling without showing or voicing it out.

Explanation:

We are humans in need of communication and love.  It is always good to be expressive.  This may not happen only with words.  Our actions and behaviors can point out such hidden sentiments.  A stitch in time saves nine, as they say.  "...I dey give you signal (Joromi).  Why you no dey see me ah (Joromi).  I give green light tire (Joromi Joro) ...Talk to your friend o..."  These are some lines from a Nigerian singer, Joromi Simi.

What she is saying in this lyrical song is that "if a man loves a woman or a woman loves a man, he/she should not hesitate to relay the information to her/him."  Hiding under the cloak of friendship had undone many good relationships.  Come into the light and let love happen.  Afterall, we are creatures of love, created by LOVE, to love.