It depends what are your trying to ask her i will try my best to give the best advice
The saying
"men are like steel, when they lose their temper they lose their worth?" means that a man in a rage has lost a valuable property (the ability to keep a cool head) just like steel looking it's valuable property (it's tempering) when it gets re-heated.
The expression tell men that they should not lose their "temper".
Implied main idea
i hope this helps
