God's love an mercy --- is the correct answer
During their courtship and marriage, John Adams and Abigail Smith Adams exchanged over 1,100 letters, many filled with intellectual discussions on government and politics considered an invaluable account of the Revolutionary War. Abigail, a fierce advocate of rights for women and African-Americans, was an important partner throughout John's political career.
"The grass is always greener on the other side," she chirped, but her advice meaned nothing to me. I hope I helped :)