When your talking with your friends, with your family, or with your colleagues, your speech and tone will change. When your with your friends and the most relaxed out of all of them being able to use some different more racy speech with them. Talking to your family you may be more relaxed but you still have to watch what you say. And talking to your colleagues you have to make sure you seem appropriate for your situation. Say you’re at work. Your co-worker May say something like “how was your day” instead of going into depth about it, naturally you just say “It was nice, how was yours” and then you both carry on with what your doing. In this general example it is just common curtsy. Now, say you’re at a charity event with your family. Your want to seem more proper, but also sociable and not stuck up. So people are more willing to talk to you about what is going on and share there opinion. There are many different way of speaking calmly, and appropriately in the social gathering you have attended.
