If 35-x is the smaller number and x is the larger number, we can take that 3*x=4*(35-x)=140-4x. Subtracting 3x from both sides, we get 140-7x=0. Adding 7x to both sides, we get 140=7x. Lastly, we can divide both sides by 7 to get x=20
You shouldn't blame your mom. You are more than capable of getting 80's that is the bare minimum. Your mom does not want you to fail, try harder and get better grades. 70's are not the best