I think "headstrong" would be the right term. Headstrong can also mean stubborn in some scenarios, so I think that'd make the most sense.
This could be wrong... but we'll give it a try, so here we go.
The theme is afterlife, or longing. The speaker is wishing she/he had the courage of her/his mother instead of something that their mother had owned.
You forgot to add the statements to choose from.
Answer:
The pair of lines from T.S. Elliot's "Rhapsody on a Windy Night" which is an example of onomatopoeia is "The street lamp sputtered, The street lamp muttered". Onomatopoeia is the formation of words which imitate sounds produced by people, animals or even objects. It's a figure of speech (some call it a figure of sound). "Sputter" and "mutter" are two perfect examples of onomatopoeia, since they are the representation of sounds and sound like those sounds. Other examples of onomatopoeia are: "buzz", "hiss" and "bang".