Try meditation every night before bed. Breath in through your nose count to 4 and breath out through your mouth and count to 4,do this 5-10 times when ever you feel really stressed and before bed. I do this every night and it helps me hope it works for Heidi and her sister
45 is not to old to help yourself. I suggest that you go to Walmart or health store and inquire about what type of vitamins are good for your muscles and what him/her recommend for a 45 yr old