There is only one important point you must keep in your mind and let it be your guide. no matter what people call you, you are j
ust who you are. keep to this truth. you must ask yourself how is it you want to live your life. we live and we die, this is the truth that we can only face alone. no one can help us, not even the buddha. so consider carefully, what prevents you from living the way you want to live your life?
Like an example is that the Ten Commandments lists that "You shalt not steal". Now in law, they have made laws, that you cannot steal and what punishment you will get if you do.