<span>I have to talk to you. I appreciate your humor but lately you've really been putting me down in front of my friends, and it's been bothering me. I know you don't mean it, but you've been hurting my feelings and making me feel insignificant in front of my friends. Do you think you can try not to do that anymore?</span>
ask more questions to open up and definitely confront the problem to her so you guys can work it out because if you don't and you both keep holding back it's not finna help nun so just go to her talk to her get out of you comfort zone. make the first moves yk don't hold back communication is key.