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Sue Ellen might react by crying or making any other signals of distress and anxiety. A way to de-escalate the situation is to calmly explain to Sue Ellen in a way that she can understand that this is her Grandmother.
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One of Peter the Great's steps to westernize Russia was his ruling that all Russian people had to wear French, British, or Spanish dress, according to class rank. Westernization could be seen as both a good and a bad thing for a country, as it means a relative loss of culture, but also (generally) more advancement in living conditions and things like that.
I would say democracy for this time of the period.