There’s not much you can do but call the cops on him or try bringing a guy bigger than him to her house when she’s getting abused by him or get her a tazor or pepper spray
Give my friend access to emergency help. S**cide hotlines, physical, and domestic abuse hotlines are all good options. Just make sure your friend has proper access to them.
Discuss the risks and form an action plan with my friend. I could get together with my friend in a private and safe place. Then, I could discuss with them why and how the abusive relationship should stop. I could figure out a safe way out, and help them every step of the way.
Explanation:
My worries:
I would be worried about them getting in an emergency where they were unsafe, and couldn't get help from me for some reason. They could instead use the resources I have given them, and receive assistance.
I would also be worried about making sure my friend knows exactly what to do to get out of the abusive relationship. They might not realize the risks of staying with their abusive partner, and get into unsafe situations, too. We could both discuss the risks and form the action plan, at somewhere safe. That way, my friend realizes what they're in, and how they can get out of it.
According to Carol Dweck's, entity or helpless orientation is related to the idea that intelligence is developed as a result of experience. Depending on the level of success or failure, intelligence is going to be higher or less, and it's also connected to the amount of effort that is dedicated to such endeavors.
