That is 100% your personal opinion but I believe that it is everyone's personal choice wether or not they would like to serve. I believe this is a matter of decision and it should not me compulsory towards any gender
She meant that the Kellers<span> needed </span>to be<span> more positive around her and when they had pity for her they were basically saying that she wasn't ever going </span>to be<span> able to learn and learn more normaly</span>
The answer to your question is sounds i believe