Largest communities north of the arctic circle are in Russia Norway Finland and Sweden: Murmansk (population 295,374) Norilisk (178018) Tromosø (75,638) Vorkuta (58,133) and Kiruna (22,841)
Ok so i dont know your question, but i think the what i guess the mom is saying that no matter what happens just move forward and dont dwell on the past, because you cannot change it. Things happen for a reason.