This is both literal and metaphorical birds do scientifically bond together through attractions they eat, sleep , and any basic day to day activity together. Same as human our parent are the mother and father birds who we flock with the teach us and love us, As with friends or spouses. I am sorry To those if I offended you with my parents comment.
To be able to get people to come to (The place of the question) I would First Start off nicely conversation after i would try to convince them to come say everything nice about that place