While high parental aspirations led to increased academic achievement, that occurred only when parents' expectations were realistic, the researchers found. When their aspirations exceeded what their children could reasonably achieve, the adolesents' achievement declined, they found.
If you tell a child you expect the best from them and guide them with love and encouragement, then it could have a good impact. Keep in mind, if they fall slightly below that expectation, you cannot react harshly or that will have a negative effect. You have to show them that you still support them and they will strive by themselves to reach that high goal
He should stop having intercourse at one and go seek medical attention. the earlier it is detected the faster he'll get treatment for it and stop spread the STD