awnser is A growth, repair.
A person walking, a thrown baseball, a crumb falling from a table
Put on the gloves should be the first step
The long term ill-ness one you would have had time to prepare for, but it doesn't make it any better. It just seems to not hurt as long. You'll be sad for a couple of days. The sudden unexpected one will tear you apart. You'll be shocked and for that you'll wonder, why them and how. You'll most likely be very sad for a long time.
