If you mean what group of elements react the most, the answer is the alkali metals and the halogens because they both only either need to gain or lose one electron. If you mean the most reactive element, it would be fluorine because it has the most electronegativity.
They are different by a phase shift of pi/2
Not sure what you are asking. I have two possible answers though...
It could either be more negatively charged, or valence electrons.
The more away from the nucleus a electron is, the more negatively charged it is.
The electrons on the outermost electron shell is valence electrons.
Again, I don't know what you were asking, but one of these answers may be correct.