Cause I don't want my lungs to be:
<span>Don't change the ring that you were originally pierced wtih. Dark colors are definately not a part of normal healing - I would reccomend that you go back to the place where you got it pierced and they can suggest an over the counter cleaning solution (like Mecca, that's what I used) or refer you to a doctor for an antibiotic perscription. In the mean time if you are feeling sore at all, take a shot glass, put 1/2 a tea spoon of epsom salts in it and fill to 3/4 with water... put the shot glass in the microwave for 40 seconds and then flip it upside down over your belly button.
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1. Tension building phase
the abuser becomes increasingly picky about small things, They become more demanding and demand more respect in the relationship.
2.calm or honeymoon phase
occurs after the abuse and gives the abuser a chance to beg for the forgiveness or otherwise convince the victim to stay
