Try to hold off on<span> making any major changes, such as moving, remarrying, changing jobs or having another child. </span>You should give<span> yourself time to adjust to your </span>loss<span>. Be patient. It </span>can<span> take months or </span>even years<span> to absorb a major </span>loss<span> and accept your changed life. Seek outside help </span>when<span> necessary</span>