In all of the cases that I've seen it is usually subtractive, but most of the time it depends on how old the child is.
Lightweight clothing because dark clothing will hold heat, waterproof clothing will stick to you and make you hot, and tight clothing will make you sweaty and hot
Not get mad at the person who who are it's not right take something big and and small like ball not a soccer ball a regular ball and u get your anger out that's my solution and people out will think it will work
