say im 16 and i like a 19-year-old that's kinda friends with my brother... we don't really get to see each other much but we tex
t a lot. he doesn't really know that i like him, like it's come up before when his friends joke around about it and i deny it all the time. But when we have deep convos he sometimes tells me "i don't wanna hurt you" and "I'm not in the right mindset right now".... but I'm just stupid and know i should get over him because I'm not enough for him but i still like him.... what should i do lol
This is hard to answer since I haven’t been through this situation, but I do recommend having a calm serious talk about your feelings, if he sees how serious and passionate you are about this, he may consider giving it a go.
Oh boy, well, he's 19 youre 16 there is an age difference....but its not bad. When your friends joke around that you like him, what does he say? Or are they just joking around w/ you? I think that you are young and the crush will pass, but if you really truly like him but he doesnt like you, you can continue to like him, because if you really like him, theres no way youre going to get over him if your heart says “hes mineeeeee”. But if you only like him a little, you could try to get over him so you dont get hurt, but getting hurt is part of growing up and figuring out who you are. Just believe in yourself and follow ur heart!! <333
