It’s a liquid because it can form any shape to fit container but the amount of liquid always stayed the same unless dropped some.
Once a chemical bond is formed, the atoms are rearranged to form a stronger bond, affecting the hardness, malleability, etc. The stronger the bond, the easier a substance will break, or, if its a liquid, it will resist seperation.
As the length of carbon chain increases the forces which hold the atoms also increases . Ethanol is a liquid due to higher bond energy