I believe the answer is the difference in gender. in a man's thinking, wife should cook, clean etc; a woman's thinking, he doesn't love me anymore, etc;?? a guess..
a psychology calss?
The first one is Power is based on owning land, rather than monetary wealth and the second one is by owing service in exchange for protection and land, and this exchange becomes the basis of power.
never mind sorry for the inconvience
