1. Identify your goal: "Make people like you"
2. Gather information: Drugs are unhealthy, you don't want to use them etc.
3. Consider the consequences: Potential addiction, make people think you're cool, health issues, arrest
4. Make the decision: Take the drugs/Don't take the drugs
5. Evaluate decision: Are you pleased with your choice? Do people like you more or hate you more? Are you happy with yourself? What was the outcome?
Most people start to face new issues at the ages of 11-13 some may gain this at older ages, but it typically starts around that time, some causes of this are: Puberty;School; Problems at home; etc.
Answer:
The first stage of grief is Denial.