"A personal flexibility goal could be to walk 20 minutes a day. You can accomplish this goal by watching less TV. Yo can go with a friend. To know you reached your goal make a chart of your progress. Whether or not you are in maintenance or relapse"
In this situation you should report what you have seen, get an adult to deal with the problem. You would not want to interfere yourself, just because it could be hazardous.
As for the partner question, just find anyone else to answer and write what they say
