This should be anwsered in something you read or a video you watched prior to the question being asked. try checking multiple sources.
I believe the answer is: criticism
By making criticism, we could expose our partner on his/her weaknesses and focusing on that weakness to evoke a certain negative emotion. By doing this, the focus of their discussion could be strayed from our own weakness/insecurities and could be used to avoid responsibility when we're in a fight with our partner.
The Era of Good Feelings label<span> is is both </span>accurate<span> and </span>inaccurate.<span> This shows </span>how<span> the union was not always strongly stable when it </span>
Many had their homes looted, ransacked, and burned. They lost all their livelihood, wealth, and possessions. Some had to continually relocate their families to keep them safe. All knew the great risk to life and still signed the Declaration.