Benito Mussolini was an Italian political leader who became the fascist dictator of Italy from 1925 to 1945. Originally a revolutionary socialist, he forged the paramilitary fascist movement in 1919 and became prime minister in 1922.
That statement is true.
In initial phase of the relationship, it is far easier to hide a certain character from your partner since both individuals haven't been exposed to each other's habbit.
Once you confess a certain weakness, you no longer be able to choose which character that you wanted other to perceive because the illusion that you put as a front for your previous character is already shattered.