Answer: Talk about the difference
For Gottman the problem is not in conflicts, as they are common and inevitable, it is in the mechanisms that are activated when problems arise.
As a result, couples who break up often get stuck in negative emotions that lead to a self-destructive cycle; consistent in employing communication mechanisms that hurt and are ineffective in resolving or accepting the situation.
Answer: Hebbian learning
Explanation: This is a type of learning which involves strengthening connections between neurons which work together. The repeated exposure to a particular stimulus can strengthen connections within a distinctive subset of cortical neurons, and this subset can provide a reliable basis for identifying the stimulus that is activating them.
It has been proven that even when an individual encounters an incomplete version of a familiar stimulus with only some of the subset of neurons representing that familiar stimulus activated at first, the connections already established through repeated coactivity will produce results that complete the familiar pattern.
If you're talking about the holocaust, they hid in houses with secret rooms similar to where slaves hid and they fled the places of exile