I would say that I'd say you have low people skills, and you lack respect for your brothers. I'd see if you have depression cuz my depression made me act in horrifying anger
I would not say you have ASPD. I would say you simply should work on your people skills(maybe there is something on You Tube) andyou are very stubborn. Next time if you hurt a brother simply say sorry and ask if you can help them out. That does a lot.