You should sit down and have a calm and collected talk. start of easy and work your way up to it. Make sure to tell him you love him and that this is who you are. I think he'll understand and he'll love you know matter what.
C. It is practically impossible to win every time. However, following the rules is important because you could get fouled/disqualified/penalized if you don't. Teamwork is important, as you have to cooperate with your team and the opponents. Positivity is also crucial as it will keep your confidence up and the overall spirits of the team will also be higher.