Take it easy & try not to think about the smallest things to argue about or take a break from each other for a while to get your guys life together
A family reunion
Religious purposes
Holiday spirit
Happiness when eating together
The need to relax after hard work
Etc.
Being aggressive won't always help you get what you desire, the world doesn't work like that. When you're aggressive you sound like a bitter, know-it-all person. Most people can't deal with that, and instead of getting your way you could get someone to be aggressive to you and teach you a lesson. So why be a bitter aggressive person rather than turning it down a notch. Chill enjoy life, it's too short.
The answer is C which is premature death