Help please. There's this guy at my school who is seen as one of the popular guys ( I don't really care about that) but I really
like him and I don't know if he likes me back or if he just has a flirty personality. He also talks and jokes with other girls sometimes but it seems like he makes an effort to touch me often. I don't see him do that with anyone else. (Lots of fist bumps lol) there was even one time he even made me dap him up then covered our hands with his other hand for a few seconds IN CLASS WITH OTHER PEOPLE LOOKING. Ughhhh I don't know. He also talks to me more seriously when we're alone and not as flirty as when other people are around but still makes me smile and my heart races. but there are other times when it seems like he could care less and never really talks to me outside of that class and we don't snap eachother or anything. He also will be doing school work and randomly get up to talk to me or high five or something lol. Sorry this is so long I'm just so confused (I'm in high school btw)
Honestly i would just ask him. i know its scary but its better to clear the air . The worst thing that happens is him saying no. Yes rejection hurts but i would rather know his true feelings than catch feelings secretly and get let down later. It takes a lot of courage, but just remember that if this one doesnt work out, it only leads you one step closer to the one youll end up with. im wishing you luck. You got this!
Yeah he totally likes you! i recommend you start being more flirty, return his energy! try to be around him more, compliment him more, and let him know you’re interested!
