Unfortunately... You're better off keeping that VP shunt in your head. VP Shunts are usually kept in for a long time, which actually can cause a problem where skin and tissue attaches to the tube. VP Shunt removals are risky, because that means, that they would have to separate the tissues that have become attached to it, which can create major complications, especially when brain tissue is involved. You also run the risk of severe infection from doing so... The Shunt removal especially for such a long time period is better avoided, but it is possible, but you should probably bring it up with your PCP and a neurosurgeon or neurologist.
On the bright side, you can actively participate in sports just as long as it is not a contact sport, which risks contact with the shunt.
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Think about your relationship with them to figure out if a behavior or past action has upset you deeply. If you find yourself upset when they enter the room you need to resolve a conflict also be the bigger person always,you should feel comfortable approaching them for reconciliation. Respectfully communicate to them you should both take some time to calm down.Think about the root of the problem and what specifically you need to change. Let them talk even if you disagree because interrupting will only add to the conflict Its important for both of you to figure out the conflict you disagree on.