About 8.09 miles is the average speed mph
The charges are the same in absolute value, so the change of potential energy is the same. That means that the change in kinetic energy is also the same. Then:
1 = Ke/Kp = m_e *v_e^2 / m_p * v_p^2, or
v_e/v_p = sqrt( m_p/m_e),
So the speed of the electron will be sqrt( m_p/m_e) times greater than the speed of the proton
The simplest answer is that gravity is the field created by a mass distribution in the spacetime around it; gravitational force is the force exterted by the field on a test mass in the field.