One day, after having a fine dinner and enjoying the late-night movie, the two, boy friend and girl friend were driving back hom
e. The boy realized in the deep silence that something is not right. the next moment, the girl asked the boy to pull over because she wanted to discuss something. The boy moved the car to the side lane and asked the reason. The girl said:
My feelings have changed and it not working between us.
The boy went silent and a tear dropped on his cheek. He took a folded note out of his pocket and passed it to her. Just then a drunk driver out of nowhere hit straight right into the driver seat. Miraculously, the girl survived but the boy was dead on the spot.
Recovering in the hospital, the girl remembered the note and she pulled it out and read: Without your love, I would die.
Lack of trust in ourselves and others. Codependent individuals lack an intrinsic sense of identity. We base our self-perception on others’ attitudes towards us and crave recognition and approval.
