You should probably go see a doctor... but something may be causing a blockage to something in your throat, or your tonsils may be enlarged, or you might have strep throat, if your throat is hurting....
Psychoanalysis is the answer as Sigmund Freud is known in his profession as a psychiatrist which used psychoanalysis to help people with mental disorders back in the day before any drugs were introduced to the market and healthcare system for people with mental illnesses.
OK so basically one would be a curfew and the other depending on the age will be don't have sex unless both let's say 18 it would be always be safe and use a condom. But if that isn't something another thing enforced would be that there needs to be a neutral respect towards each other
True, all of these could be symptoms of stress