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My first future goals is to find someone that will respect my boundries. Like maybe like to take things rough, but not too rough. My second future goal is to find a partner that will make me feel comfortable with my body during intercourse. My first value is to make sure that my partner is having just as much pleasure as I am. To make sure that both of us are enjoying the experience. My second value is making sure my partner is secure with his own body. Both parties need to be secure in this situation. Two plans would be to start off with foreplay, such as kissing and hugging. The next plan is to start the fun if you know what I mean *wink,wink*. Two limits I would set would be that I will allow my wrists and ankle to be tied, but I will not allow handcuffing. The second limit is that I woun't allow any physical aggression past a light slap on the buttox or a hand lightly gripping my neck.
The somatic nervous system I think
Coming from someone who has experienced eating disorders…
-be extremely supportive and patient
-Avoid commenting on appearance or weight. People with eating disorders are already overly focused on their bodies. Even assurances that they’re not fat play into their preoccupation with being thin. Instead, steer the conversation to their feelings. Why are they afraid of being fat? What do they think they’ll achieve by being thin?
-Avoid giving simple solutions. For example, “All you have to do is accept yourself.” Eating disorders are complex problems. If it were that easy, your loved one wouldn’t be suffering.
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I guess 3) cuz that's the appropriate one and correct one..
