Start planning how to lead a healthy sexual life. List some of your goals for your life, your values and limitations regarding s
exual activity and relationships, and steps you will take to achieve those goals while preserving your values and limitations. (two future goals, two values and limits, and two plans.)
My first future goals is to find someone that will respect my boundries. Like maybe like to take things rough, but not too rough. My second future goal is to find a partner that will make me feel comfortable with my body during intercourse. My first value is to make sure that my partner is having just as much pleasure as I am. To make sure that both of us are enjoying the experience. My second value is making sure my partner is secure with his own body. Both parties need to be secure in this situation. Two plans would be to start off with foreplay, such as kissing and hugging. The next plan is to start the fun if you know what I mean *wink,wink*. Two limits I would set would be that I will allow my wrists and ankle to be tied, but I will not allow handcuffing. The second limit is that I woun't allow any physical aggression past a light slap on the buttox or a hand lightly gripping my neck.
