Sometimes it is just apart of growing up, but sometimes it's not depending on the extent. I used to have a major hatred twoards myself, but overtime I've realized that it was worse than it should have been. I would just say take care of yourself! <3 you are beautiful inside and out!! and you make the biggest difference...even if it doesn't seem like it at times. Practice self care habits and take time to yourself. I wish you the best of luck and i'm always here if you need anything or someone to talk to!!! (As well as sooooo many other people in your life :)) )